I've been wanting to vent about this experience Kira had for a couple of weeks now. Sorry if you were in the mood for a more positive post, this one isn't it.
So Kira shared with me a not so funny experience she had at the doctors office the other day. For some reason this doctors office has the mentality that multiple kids are bad which is kind of ironic seeing how their business is dependant on people having babies. We've observed this attitude by the comments the staff have made as she has gone in for her appointments. Looks of disbelieve and snide remarks at having three kids with a fourth on the way. Needless to say the experiences have been less then positive but after this last one it has become apparent where the attitude with the staff is coming from. The boss always sets the tone for the staff good or bad. Well here is the behavior of the boss.
Kira goes in for her appointment. I had a meeting so I was not able to make it there to help out like I usually do and the our usual babysitter was not available. All three kids are hanging out in the room as the doctor comes in. She is visibly annoyed with the children, she begins to ask Kira the usual questions then when Kira mentions the baby is kicking her ribs begins to argue that the baby can't be kicking her ribs it is physically impossible because she isn't far enough along for that. (because of course Kira doesn't know what a baby kicking her ribs feels like, this is only her fourth baby) The doctor begins to argue with Kira about what actual week Kira is in. The doctor then leaves the room to check the chart then comes back even more annoyed (probably because she counted the weeks and realized she was wrong). Upon returning she asks Hunter how old he is. Upon hearing that he is 5 years old she looks at our other two kids and without even trying to hide her annoyed look she turns to Kira and says "You don't use birth control do you?"
So I just wanted to briefly and publicly express my thanks to our very concerned and thoughtful (not to mention tactful) doctor who is apparently so concerned about whether or not we use birth control. In the future miss doctor please keep your concerns to yourself and do what I am paying you to do which is to make sure my wife is safe and healthy and that my child arrives here safe and sound. In the future we will make sure to take our business elsewhere. An OBGYN who actually appreciates the fact that people have babies.